Ministry leader shares insights at conference
August 10, 2017
Michele Hendrix remembers the moment her life changed. Floating above her hospital bed, she saw her beloved pastor at Grace Presbyterian Church in Houston praying for her. She was just 33 years old.
“It wasn’t a beautiful story,” she says now. “I was kind of suspended in time, watching the sadness of my husband, with our 4-year-old twins — a boy and a girl — and 6-year-old daughter, feeling that kind of sorrow.”
The president of POAMN Michele Hendrix (center) along with Lydia Manning (left) and Kati Scronce (right) at 7th annual international conference’ Ageing and Spirituality’
Hendrix, now 65, is president of the Presbyterian Older Adult Ministry Network (POAMN). She survived that three-week hospital stay in 1985, when doctors discovered a tumor on her bladder. She also had blood clots in her lungs and pneumonia.
Having emotionally experienced what dying might be like, Hendrix no longer took any day for granted. Her personal mission became “making Jesus visible” by doing everything she could to make a difference, by “smiling at the face of an older person in the grocery store” or “stopping to talk with a homeless person.”
She also began volunteering at her home church, Grace Presbyterian, in older adult ministries. Eventually she was named director and pastoral care assistant for the ministry.
“I could relate to the struggle we all face in the journey of life, from birth to death,” she said. “The loss that came with my feeling of being suspended in time helped me see both the beauty and challenge of ministering to older adults.”
Hendrix calls those 20 years of service in ministry to older adults “a gift” because she began to see that “with age comes wisdom, with wisdom comes grace, with grace comes acceptance and with acceptance comes understanding.”
Hendrix shared some of what she’s learned in Older Adult Ministry at the recent 7th International Conference on Ageing and Spirituality at Concordia University in Chicago. During the conference, which POAMN helped sponsor, Hendrix co-led an experiential session, “The Church as a ‘Go-To Place’ for Caregivers.” She argues passionately for the church to come up with a compassionate response to challenges facing aging populations, their families and society. By 2030, it’s estimated that 72.8 million adults — 20 percent of U.S. residents — will be 65 or older, and most members of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) are in this category.
“I talked about how older adults are going through so many losses,” Hendrix said, “including the loss of their church. When they can no longer walk inside its walls, they feel disposable.”
Hendrix hears from those who are hurting, including entire families who usually go to their home congregations for help. Those churches often come to POAMN for assistance.
“Our time has come,” Hendrix said. “Everything POAMN does is mission for the church. We believe it is wise to prepare all ages and all generations to navigate this journey of life together.”
That’s what she learned in the moment when she thought her time had come — and in her call to serve in older adult ministries. At Grace, more than 800 senior adults and 800 baby boomers were under her care.
“It was critical for us to have someone we could relate to, someone to empower and equip us for the different phases on the journey of aging,” she said. “Together we learned how to develop ministries and resources to meet completely differently needs and interests of multiple generations.
“It is special and sacred to minister and learn from those who often are the most vulnerable, the most fragile and the most frightened.”
The Evangelism area of Theology, Formation & Evangelism at the PC(USA) serves as a liaison to POAMN. Ray Jones, the ministry’s associate director, attended the international conference and called it “a great learning opportunity.
“I’m discovering they’re making a difference in congregational life, helping older adults grow in discipleship in ministry beyond retirement, and helping intergenerational populations better deal with losses that come with the aging process.”
Paul Seebeck, Mission Communications Strategist, Video and Digital Asset Management, Presbyterian Mission Agency
Today’s Focus: Older Adult Ministry
Let us join in prayer for:
Grace Presbyterian Church
Trey H. Little, senior pastor/head of staff
Chris French, pastor, missional living
Mike Fry, parish associate
Chad Erb, pastor, student ministries
Francisco Garibay, pastor, Grace en Espanol
PC(USA) Agencies’ Staff
Clare Lewis, PMA
Marc Lewis, PPC
Let us pray:
Loving God, we remember being part of your family. We are blessed in many ways. You call us to share our love with others, and so we continue to spread the good news that you are with us forever. Amen.
Daily Readings
Morning Psalms 116; 147:12-20
First Reading 2 Samuel 11:1-27
Second Reading Acts 19:11-20
Gospel Reading Mark 9:2-13
Evening Psalms 26; 130